Iyanla Vanzant was born Rhonda Eva Harris on 13 September 1953, in the back of a taxi in Brooklyn, New York. Her mother, Sarah Jefferson, died of breast cancer when she was a small child, and she was raised by paternal relatives.
Her childhood included sexual abuse by a relative when she was nine. She married at 18 and had three children, Damon, Gemmia and Nisa, by the age of 21.
Her first marriage was physically abusive, and in 1980 she left with her three children. These experiences later became central to her teaching on healing and self-worth.



